Dating a Chameleon Made Me Question My Sense of Self

My ex-boyfriend was a moody and enigmatic person

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His vulnerability made it easy to love him; he expressed his needs and desires, talked about his feelings. Not long after I met him, I saw him cry. I also saw him explode with laughter. His moods led him to bring me flowers, to drink heavily, and to take on the cloak of a chameleon. The more…